Justus I am so confused what you are so upset about.
1. Surf lied to you that your dd was a unicorn?
2. DA wont let your dd play in their sandbox since she does not want to play DA?
3. Surf DA players play at private high schools including President's kid at Bishops and are therefore working the system?
4. The fact that your dd's glory days as a GOAT are over since you pissed off all of the GOAT parents online here?
5. The fact that your dd's glory days on a winning team are over since you have burned so many bridges?
Everyone please add to my list if you can figure it out.
Stop the dribble about the Surf team being amazing. Surf wanted that 04 team to go all the way due to the Board members kiddos being on the team. They also knew that the hardest competition they would face was in CalSouth. So they recruited players away from other top teams in Southern Cal. They promised families from inland and OC the world to make sure that teams like the Blues, Slammers, West Coast, Arsenal (I am speculating on some of these teams) did not have a nexus of players to beat Surf. This included scholarships to lure players away from their current teams, like your family. At the time I am sure you did not give a crap about any of the players that were being displaced, not because they were not good enough to make the team, but because they needed to make more room for the players they wanted to keep off of other teams. I am also sure you did not give a crap about the families that paid more so you could have a free ride. Scholarships are not always about getting the best players but keeping players from other teams too. While I am sure your dd is a great player, you are also minimizing the contributions of legit players on that team. You reap what you sow.