Most sports are pay to play…think soccer is bad…golf, tennis, gymnastics, etc. It is the youth sports model in the US. Not saying it is right, just saying it is what it is. ECNL does a great job with events getting the coaches out there for Showcases. My DD’s Club has had a few local coaches at club ECNL league games in CA, but the big ECNL showcases, playoffs, and Surf Events draw the largest amount of coaches. GA is second. For the 2025 Commits so far almost 75% are coming from ECNL, almost 25% coming from GA, and rest from other leagues and international. The coaches have spoken on where they are looking. Like it or not, that’s the reality. Coaches do look at the emails and show up to games to watch kids interested in the school, and they look at good teams and identify players. I have heard from coaches we know, that kids that want to go to their school, they watch and evaluate. You are not going to be found like a needle in a hay stack. Emails, film, camps…rinse and repeat.
It’s a condition not an illness, you can treat and over come an illness, a condition you have to manage and deal with. ECNL has the best platform, and access is predicated by being on a member club. Just gonna have to accept that condition and deal with it whether you like it or not.
Every IG Sweatshirt Pic has a different story…no money, academic only, some athletic, full athletic, full w/academic + athletic, graduated scales of money. We know families with all of these. As long as the kid is where they want to be, finances work for the family, and everyone is happy it is all good. As expensive as all the tournaments, camps, travel, etc. was/is…I look at it as entertainment…spending time with my kid, making friend with parents on the team and other teams, watching the kids play, grow, develop, mature…its been a fun ride, and will miss it a bit when it is over.