Weird, it never got in the way of my kid playing for the YNT. But just to make sure I have this straight, you're upset because you think your kid didn't make the YNT due to the age cut-off change, presumably because it forced your kid to play with the big girls, right? You believe she was good enough to play for the U14 team but not to make the U15 team, so therefore it is a humanitarian crisis? Do I have that right?
It is really sad that your kid's youth soccer experience was so important but disappointing for you. It must also must bug the heck out of you that mine did play for the YNT, now plays at her dream school, and both she and I loved every minute of her youth soccer experience, largely because we never took it that seriously and really just loved the time we were able to spend together while she grew up. We lived through the exact same times, subject to the exact same youth soccer changes and the exact same pandemic. In fact, my daughter's experience may have been harder than yours since yours didn't miss prom, graduation, much of her senior year, half of her freshman year that should have been at college, all on lockdown. And you know what, those times were some of the best we ever had because we took responsibility for our own success and happiness instead of feeling sorry for ourselves and blaming everyone around us.
It could not be more true that life is what you make it, and look what you made. You squandered what could have been four of the best years you could ever hope to have with your kid. They are gone forever. You spent the last four years doing nothing but complain about how your daughter's soccer was a disappointment for you. How sure are you that she believed all of your lame excuses instead of actually hearing what I and pretty much everyone here believes but you won't admit, which is that you were disappointed in her for what she wasn't able to accomplish? Couldn't make the YNT, you have a lame excuse. Couldn't carry her HS team to glory, more lame excuses. Couldn't win another "national championship" after middle school, yet more ridiculous excuses. Wasn't good enough to go pro after she turned 18, well that was a middle school club coach's fault, he brainwashed you into telling college coaches to go away.
You have only a few months left before the two of you may never live under the same roof again. What are you going to do? More of the same?