I agree with what is the expectation question. My DD is trapped ‘06 in the ECNL, meaning, she is a 2025 and will play with the ‘07’s her last year. Once recruiting time hits, the game goes from a team game to an individual game for most. Most are focused on their college dreams or picking up social activities they missed earlier the last couple years if committed early.
My DD’s team plays good soccer, competes with anyone when they have their full roster, but we have kids miss games and practice for homecoming, camps, convenience, vacation, etc. Some kids take it seriously after they commit, others do not. Some are getting ready and focused on getting to campus fit and ready to compete, and some are coasting after the IG Sweatshirt Pic.
My DD’s club has made it clear the focus is getting the kids committed the last two years, keeping them healthy, and making sure the kids who are not committed are getting opportunities in showcases…the club wants the team competitive and to win, but recruiting takes the top spot.
The expectations change at U17, and for me, I would look at the end result, are kids getting committed, v. W’s and L’s the last couple of years. I do agree, you need to be competitive, top half of the table, not getting crushed by 5 or 7 goals in showcases as you are building up to U17, because college coaches will wonder if this kid is good and talented, why are they on this team with poor results, especially in an area so dense like So Cal, with so many teams.
My DD’s ‘06 team has 17 of 23 players committed - 16 of 20 2024’s and 1 of 3 2025’s. All across D1,D2, D3. Ivy, P5, WCC, Big West, Mountain West, Big Sky…Parents are pretty happy and all anyone is really focused on is staying healthy and the kids playing well, far less emphasis on winning, no more crazy sideline antics, except for super hard fouls. It’s calmed down a lot.
I would judge Sharks or any club by how good they are placing kids at the end of the programming, not results in u12, u13. Isn’t that why everyone is doing this, for their kids to get to the next level?