Coach working in God mode?

Gee said:
I prefer people should be aware and learn from other people’s mistakes. The smart people will learn from the wise it’s called wisdom if everyone just turns their cheek and says nothing about this or that coach nothing is said and coach continues to behave the same way.

It seems like many of us tolerate this garbage and have developed some thick skin but why in the world should we tolerate this crap there is no excuse and we just let it continue same reason why half the United Stares hates Trump but he’s still in office.

And today I felt I should bill blass that ass because the coach and club deserve a bad report sorry I’m not holding my tongue!!
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Once again speaking for the masses. You got your kid kicked out of Tudela, then in a few months after nobody will take your kid because of you, Beach takes the risk to bring you along and now you are bashing Beach FC because you got booted again?

Where do you get that half of the US hates President Trump?
 
Can we generalize exactly what a toxic parent is?

To be fair the real bad ones don't surface until 6 months into a season when their kids getting out played and benched. You really need to have a set of balls to ask new parents when shopping for a club on who to stay away from.
 
coachsamy said:
Gee / Control Freak
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You guys got jokes! Anyhow we never got kicked off of You-smella I already told you Tudela wasn’t man enough to speak to me over the phone so we decided to decline on there very strange offer to join their club. And B ache FC is past experience I’m being kind enough to share with non- toxic and toxic parents! LOL..
 
Grace T. said:
There are lot's of problems with youth soccer including...

-Parents obsessed with developing their kids at the expense of the team (meekly raises hand)
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I agree with your entire list except this one (and perhaps coaches worrying about their livelihood: they don't get paid much and work very hard and have to make a living...)

It's when coaches put their team ahead of development that I see a problem.
 
Obviously this is not the way many parents would approach a similar situation with a coach that disappointed. However, there does seem to be a certain amount of unwillingness to openly discuss the "generally accepted as bad" coaches out there. I bet we all could point to a coach or 2 that seems to have his/her whole team leave every season, only to pick up new teams in new age groups, or move from girls to boys then back, or head to a new club to start the process all over again. It seems like DOCs protect these perpetrators, perhaps because of long time friendships or whatever. Sure word gets around eventually, but even non-toxic parents don't really discuss it openly because it's a small world and there is fear of being labeled as a troublesome parent. I would love to see more discussions of coaches to avoid with the rationale provided.
 
There's at least one toxic parent on every team, it seems like.

Talking crap about other players
Doesn't like the coach's substitutions
Bitches nonstop about playtime
Wants weekly reviews of player progress
Thinks that his problems will be magically solved by blowing up his team/club on the forums

If you have that much of a problem with a coach or a club, LEAVE. There are plenty of other options out there.
 
JoeBieber said:
There's at least one toxic parent on every team, it seems like.

Talking crap about other players
Doesn't like the coach's substitutions
Bitches nonstop about playtime
Wants weekly reviews of player progress
Thinks that his problems will be magically solved by blowing up his team/club on the forums

If you have that much of a problem with a coach or a club, LEAVE. There are plenty of other options out there.
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But 9 times out of 10 that parents player isn't good enough to make another team so they intentionally try to sink the ship for a reshuffling of the deck the following season.

Bigger programs have no problem getting these problematic parents out the door but it's the smaller programs that need the numbers who suffer.
 
Kopi said:
TMZ! Where else! ;)
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Or CNN![/QUOTE]
Chalklines said:
But 9 times out of 10 that parents player isn't good enough to make another team so they intentionally try to sink the ship for a reshuffling of the deck the following season.

Bigger programs have no problem getting these problematic parents out the door but it's the smaller programs that need the numbers who suffer.
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Has anyone thought perhaps these parents are toxic for legit reasons ?

For shits and giggles I think I will create some toxic parent and non-toxic parent T-Shirts and pass them out so we know whose who at the next game!

Cheers!

Yours truly
Gee
 
Texas2Cali said:
Obviously this is not the way many parents would approach a similar situation with a coach that disappointed. However, there does seem to be a certain amount of unwillingness to openly discuss the "generally accepted as bad" coaches out there. I bet we all could point to a coach or 2 that seems to have his/her whole team leave every season, only to pick up new teams in new age groups, or move from girls to boys then back, or head to a new club to start the process all over again. It seems like DOCs protect these perpetrators, perhaps because of long time friendships or whatever. Sure word gets around eventually, but even non-toxic parents don't really discuss it openly because it's a small world and there is fear of being labeled as a troublesome parent. I would love to see more discussions of coaches to avoid with the rationale provided.
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Exactly I second that.
 
beach is not a ethical club. they just hired our old coach who was fired from cda slammers. coach was known to go to vegas and could not control himself. beach knew this and still hired him.
 
jrcaesar said:
At some clubs, Flight 2 teams are just that: Flight 2 teams. It's why SCDSL was created. What's most likely best for Beach is to build a Flight 1 team of 12-year-olds from scratch, or to inherit one (add a coach) and move a couple kids from that Flight 2 team onto it. Then they still have a Flight 2 team to offer parents.
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Well they offered Flight 1 with this guy but obviously there’s no way we were going that route!
 
No legitimate reasoning.

We have been conditioned over the years to complain and you get your way. Why earn it or work for it now when you can be handed it
 
soccerislife said:
beach is not a ethical club. they just hired our old coach who was fired from cda slammers. coach was known to go to vegas and could not control himself. beach knew this and still hired him.
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Wow!! Creepy! Perhaps this dude can replace coach Javier ..
 
toucan said:
Help us out, Gee. Where is your daughter playing now? It's great to know who to avoid, but help us by advising as to who actually meets your standards?
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Toxic Parents Untied up by Fuck You Road in Cala-Kiss-My-Ass-Bitch!
 
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