I'm glad they're doing what they said they were intending to do...
So many times I feel like coaches and DOCs say "play well on the 2nd team and you can get on the 1st team!" but it's a lie... they recruit from outside the club to fill both teams...
So if RL to NL player flow is happening, kudos to them
I have a lot of opinions that are not facts yet about different style and skills learned. For instance, the girls that are ecnl level, but play in RL may get a lot of looks at the goal and get more experience finishing in RL. Some may argue that the competition is easier and ECNL has better defense, but the actual finishing opportunities in a game (game time reps) may be more available in RL especially for players that are as good as ECNL Players. They may not get the pressure, but they could be fine tuning their bend and instincts? This will make them better finishers in ECNL imo.
For defenders though, I want to play the best offense and have constant pressure. Part of why I don't care if my daughter is on the best team. I want her to get the best game time pressure and competition, but I'd rather her be on a team that does not just feed a killer forward line or avoid a lot of pressure defensively due to crazy good midfielders. I want my daughter to have experience handling 2 on 1s or fast freight train forwards, etc. I do want her team to be good though. They have to be able to play from the back and pass through the press. I want to win, but my ultimate goal is to build a college athlete.
I used to play tennis casually competitively and the ultimate way to train was to play against someone better and also someone not as good. You play more tense and consistent against the better player, but you can play loose and take risks vs the player not as good. Another words, you develop and build aggressive instincts against the easier opposition that you eventually use against the better player. If you just play the better player, you end up playing tight and predictable.
The stress and pressure is also a lot for a young adult let alone a teenager. King Richard is a movie people should see. Venus Williams Dad did not want her playing in the junior circuit. He did not like the stress and pressure they faced there. The thing is his daughters were incredible athletes with size and power, so the biggest hurdles were going to be their own heads and bodies. There is a balance to all this. If you have an incredible athlete, the worst thing you can do is kill their joy and bodies with over use of the body. You can win and have fun though and some kids will need to be incredibly skilled to make up for lack of speed/athleticism depending on position.
You have to ask yourelf, would you rather your kid be an outstanding, healthy athlete performing in front of college recruiters or a pretty good player on a top team? Many are choosing to be on the top team rather than where the kid will develop best. Most times it takes a good system to move your kid for best development. Too many parents only see what they consider being dropped.
Point is that kids can develop faster on lower flights and always build back up. So long as the club invites this movement, it's very healthy, positive, and most likely more local and convenient. Too many parents move in packs and lose better development for labels or individual standing. When they earn their spots, nothing can stop them. Parents are part of the problem. They will work in bundles and do whatever they can to avoid the lower flight stigmas. Smart parents focus on where the kid will develop, have fun, and learn to love the competition. Having a club with a good leveling system is very helpful imo.
Clubs have to contend with parents, so it's not just the clubs that create the toxic situations.