I'm a hypocrite why exactly? Because I am following the guidance of my city's public health department (and my county's and our state's)? Or because I'm worried about what 5 months of missed training might mean for their future so I'm either gaming the system (trying to encourage others to stay home so my kids can train and there's my hypocrisy) or putting them behind? I'm not too worried about it - if my HS kids are good enough to play at the higher levels, a year off like everyone will have (more or less) is not going to matter much, just like their older sister was able to manage an injury and miss some time and have her best years on the other side. If they are not good enough, I'm sorry that they are losing this time b/c they are in their last years playing their favorite sport competitively but, in the end, the time off won't be what made them unable to move to the next level.
There is not enough data out there to "go with" or "go against" the science on this. The samples are small, there are variables that interfere, there is not a huge amount of time to gauge what's really happening, it is novel disease. Because of so many unknowns, I'm comfortable with a cautious approach - a cautious approach may prove to be unnecessary but we have some contrary groups out there that will prove the point one way or another. Soon enough we will be able to look at Mississippi's outbreak of cases in schools, at Notre Dame's outbreak, and outbreak after outbreak that are certain to happen in areas were schools (K-12 and colleges) are open and they are treating this either as a hoax or as low risk b/c the young people tend to be OK. Soon enough, we will have a larger sample of infected young people and shortly after that, we will understand the death rates a bit more. Basically, governors and college presidents have decided to prove the case with their students . . . for their sake (and because I know people in the test cohort), I really hope you are right and what we see in a month or two are what you expect (low death rates and low post-illness health impact). I'm OK with there being no youth and college soccer seasons until we know more. And I'm OK following my city's guidance which allows them to be doing some things but restricts others.