When you try to force a process through and bend rules for your own benefit, things like this happen. There should have been complete transparency from the beginning...telling all original parents and families that they are going to form a team but they're not clear on if, where and when the team might play. Doesn't sound like they did this but I wasnt there. Then let the families decide if they want to dedicate the time and $$ to going. My hunch is more families would have said "no thank you." Another example of big organizations limiting decision-making/choice of families (the little guys). Their next round of invites will have a much lower response/acceptance rate. Fool me once...