Bro, I was sold Pro for that GDA league back in 2017 I kid you not. No one was talking college to me or my little one, trust me. 7th grader. They saw something in my kid at that time, a hunger, a thirst to battle and a thirst to win medals and play all out and go for the gold medal....lol! When my kid was 13, it was all about GDA, U14 Youth National Team List, Pro and no one pays a dime. How on earth would I even entertain my kid leaving Tad? Come on man, something had to be offered, right? I was told to look around because Tad took the olders and my kid was 4 10' at best and was confused. Should I play up and get smashed playing up or play possession and go Pro? They got the age changed in 2017 and caused so much chaos and confusion most of our heads were spinning with one sales pitch after another, from one Doc to another. Fully funded Free Rides for all the girls brother. What is not to like about that? Plus they have The List that everyone wanted their kid to be on. After your kid doesn;t make the U14 YNT List for whatever the reason, the bait on the hook is switched to college scholarship opportunities. This was 7th grade by the way and they told me to get my kid over to college night so she can learn how to send emails so she can say hi to coach and then wait by the phone for a quick hi and then offer. I had old friends whose kids were depressed and or quit the college game because of the demand. The girls were quitting the sport 8 out of 10 in college before their Sr year. That's why they change the recruiting rule. I also thought at this time everyone was getting a full ride in girls soccer. I know, silly me. I know this 2021 player that also made YNT a few times and is really smart. Parents make good money so no fin aid for being poor. She got 60% deal and came off the bench this year. Great kid. The fact is, at Big U this kid and her parents will have to pay $85,000 after four years. Pops has money from being smart with it and not that big of a deal money wise for this family. I was shocked not a full full ride. She loves her school, her coach and all is good and no depression. Another player I know is also 2021 and is in the transfer portal because her coach was a big fat liar and got fired as well for being a liar. This city is not what she thought it would be and crime is through the roof. The program is a mess and she hates the school. Super great kid and was depressed all year. Finally found a great school and the soccer coach saw her play one of her best collegiate games this past season and has spot open for her. Yes, a 2022 could have maybe got it but her parents are rich and will pay for the spot, meaning the parents will pay the tuition. No big deal and makes sense for the coach. Not sure of the deal but might just be books and admin, early class sign up and a few other perks. This girl will find minutes because she gets straight A's, does not party and will be a great addition. I know other stories. I do my research and I get to the truth of how great or not so great college soccer is and do you get full rides. I say about 20% seem to be having fun and the only full rides I know about are girls with super smart brains and really good soccer player. The best of the best soccer player and ok grades is only getting 50% from the soccer program. If your parents are poor, then it could be free, depending on the school and the State you live in. This is a cut throat sport in college at the highest level. I mean that with respect and its the truth. We need a pro path for the next group of girls, mooThis is what I don't understand. One of the top female soccer players in the nation + only gets 50% scholarship?
You'd do better saving up the $$$ and stapling it to your kids application. (aka providing a donation to the school)
What I also don't understand is that some of the top soccer colleges have all kinds of issues with coaches treating players like crap + most of the top teams play kickball.
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