Paul Spacey
SILVER ELITE
Explain what exactly, just so I’m clear?
Is your club financially sound?
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The pic with no shirt.
Paul Spacey
SILVER ELITE
Again, so I'm clear. What is it you want me to explain about it? Are you offended? If not, are you offended on behalf of someone else? Interested to hear your viewpoint.
The workouts are open for anyone to join in, hence the use of IG LIVE and not Zoom; they are not FC England specific workouts although some of our players join in for additional training. What I wear (unless I'm naked of course) isn't the point; the challenging nature of the workouts is the point. If someone doesn't like it, the solution is simple. Don't watch it.
If my stalker is who I think it is, he would benefit greatly from doing some of the workouts himself although not without his shirt; he might scare the neighbors.
Okay, look. I respect you. I know that other poster is trolling and stirring the pot. But, that individual pulled something off the internet.Again, so I'm clear. What is it you want me to explain about it? Are you offended? If not, are you offended on behalf of someone else? Interested to hear your viewpoint.
The workouts are open for anyone to join in, hence the use of IG LIVE and not Zoom; they are not FC England specific workouts although some of our players join in for additional training. What I wear (unless I'm naked of course) isn't the point; the challenging nature of the workouts is the point. If someone doesn't like it, the solution is simple. Don't watch it.
If my stalker is who I think it is, he would benefit greatly from doing some of the workouts himself although not without his shirt; he might scare the neighbors.
Paul Spacey
SILVER ELITE
Sorry, my reply to you was supposed to be light hearted. Sometimes doesn’t carry across well in writing.
Yeah the screenshot he pulled is from IG. Nothing to hide, it’s just a workout. Maybe he likes me, who knows
Okay. Going forward wear a shirt and knickers.Sorry, my reply to you was supposed to be light hearted. Sometimes doesn’t carry across well in writing.
Yeah the screenshot he pulled is from IG. Nothing to hide, it’s just a workout. Maybe he likes me, who knows
That was also in the 1980’s......
Eagle33
PREMIER
I completely agree. It is very unprofessional.
I worked with that club for two years in the 70's, and then when my kids were involved as players and coaches from 1996 to 2015.
Dude, did your kid get cut from his club or something? Jeez.
And by the way, the gentleman looks like he could be in his 40’s and illustrating the benefits of his workout program by showing his 6-pak, etc. seems reasonable to me.
It's just as inspiring with a shirt on. In today's environment, it's reckless to to do something that suggests any type of sexual connotation when dealing with minors. It's likely nothing was meant by not wearing a shirt but perceptions sink ships - why even go there?
For the record, I'm not offended by him not wearing a shirt, but would question if my DDs coach decided to take off his shirt during a workout. Doesn't pass the common sense test if the intent is to appear professional. If you work with minors, keep your shirt on. Today's hyper political environment is just waiting to consume you.
Something to think about. Just my opinion.
Paul Spacey
SILVER ELITE
And IMO that kind of weak-minded approach is exactly why we have such a hyper political environment. I don’t take part in it. If you think a shirtless workout justifies using the words ‘sexual connotation’ then we’re just on a completely different page.
We’ve got to stop with this nit-picking of minor things; it’s making kids mentally weaker and more anxious about everything. Your DD isn’t part of the club so you’ve got nothing to worry about. I respect your opinion; I just don’t share your approach and mindset. All good.
Another IG Report without context. Tough times we live in these days. I had a mom back in 8th grade send me a pic my dd posted. It was obvious she was being watched like a hawk from some. Peceptions of some does not equal truth. Innuendo games is gnarly.
I have Lin Wood's personal cell if anyone needs it. Dont be afraid of the big bad wolf.
It's not a minor thing. The fact that you think doing drill without a shirt is minor means you may not be ready to lead young men and women.
Put your clothes on and act like a coach. Do you ever see professional soccer coachs dancing around doing drills half naked in any professional or college environment?
It's all about perception. Be professional.
If you IG is private and these videos are not meant to be seen by players then you can do whatever you want. However if they are meant to interact with players then its unprofessional.
Minor things isn't not picking. It's what will separate good from great players.
Paul Spacey
SILVER ELITE
Bless you. No worries, we’re cut from a different cloth. I agree with you on minor things related to actual soccer IQ. However, if you focus on pointless minor things, you lose sight of the real goal. If you’ve ever played sport at any solid level, you’ll understand that.
We’re all different. For those who are uncomfortable or want to pander to a hyper politically correct environment, I’m not the coach for you. Good job we have thousands of coaches and clubs to choose from. Each to their own. Respect.
I know of a coach that would send text messages to his female 12 year old players at 5:30 am as he was heading to the gym. He was trying to motivate and inspire. Maybe it did - But i think it's extremely creepy for a 26 year old man to text 12 year old girls for any reason. (Not sure if he had a shirt on or not).
You do you -we agree on some things and don't understand each other other things - that's why we live where we live. Please re read what I said. I did not say it justifies sexual connotation, I am saying that to some, it could suggest it - then read the next sentence as to my opinion.
I agree that we are nit picking and that kids need to be more resilient BUT Someone would be foolish and naive to think something as innocuous as conducting an officially sanctioned workout without out without a shirt with minors wouldn't become a target in today's environment. You don't have "partake" in today's ridiculous political environment, but you can certainly become collateral damage.
I teach my kids to be resilient, not be thinned skin (2nd place is first loser), and have common sense. It's also likely just as important for them to be aware of their environment and be emotionally intelligent.
You have a choice, as do others. And you are right, my DD is not in your club, and it would likely be her choice. Based on your comments , I would certainly not choose your club but others may. Choices, gotta luv em.
Eagle33
PREMIER
I really feel bad that you are missing the point. It's not about politically correct or living by the beach, etc.
It's about Professionalism.