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Truly sad to see good families get played like that. I feel really sad for the girls that get lied to by these adults. My dd and I sniffed them out early but because of fear and not wanting to rock the boat we laid low for two years. I kept seeing and hearing from dear families who got so screwed.This has to stop and get better for all of us. I got guys telling me to shut up because I don't know what I'm talking about and I'm just bitter my kid din;t make the stupid list that Mark and the other docs controlled back then for u14. Seriously guys, you think I came here in July not knowing what truly happened to my kid? I came here and I'm still here looking for answers to my questions because Mark wouldn't or couldn;t answer them.

Stop playing the victim. You went to Surf and got a free ride correct? Please you can’t say that the training your dd receives at Surf was not valuable. Life is not fair and the best don’t always make the list whether it be NT, TC, ODP or even AYSO All-Stars. I’ve known plenty of kiddos that quit soccer entirely for tennis, track, cross country and golf because the system in these sports are more objective. Either learn to live with it or more on. And you’ll be glad to know that my niece told me that CIF in San Diego no longer allows DA girls to play high school. She is bummed because she thought her high school team would kill it next year.

 

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Stop playing the victim. You went to Surf and got a free ride correct? Please you can’t say that the training your dd receives at Surf was not valuable. Life is not fair and the best don’t always make the list whether it be NT, TC, ODP or even AYSO All-Stars. I’ve known plenty of kiddos that quit soccer entirely for tennis, track, cross country and golf because the system in these sports are more objective. Either learn to live with it or more on. And you’ll be glad to know that my niece told me that CIF in San Diego no longer allows DA girls to play high school. She is bummed because she thought her high school team would kill it next year.

Facter, where have you been? I am not a victim bro. But you know who is? All the girls should be able to do both and. I never cared about that stupid list bro. If I did, I would have kissed Marks Ring. The free ride lasted for two months. Yes, it did figure in my decision and I'm guilty for taking the money as did other coaches and docs. After EJ and the talks with Map, you think I care about the List that Mark, JH and few others put together in Socal? U17 and above is The List to be on and that will never happen for my baby unless some big changes happen at the top and if she turns heads every time she plays soccer. Not easy to make The List these days.