What happened to THE Luis Andres thread?

Her journey? She is getting ready to play her second season of club soccer u10. Her journey will begin when she turns 13 and decides on her own if she’s willing to do all the little extra things that it takes to get to the next level. Right now what I’m doing is being a Dad, that’s setting up his child to win later. By instilling the proper values and beliefs within her that will help her persevere when she is on her own making her own decisions for her future. There is nothing wrong in me setting her up to win later as long as she enjoys the process. I’m just conditioning her for success in the future. Wether she decides to continue or quit, it’s on her. The secrete to being successful in anything you want to accomplish in life lies in the act of falling in love with the process of getting there. If you can do that, you’re way ahead of the pack. Because the minute the process becomes just work without love, you will probably not get there. Success = Your ability to recognize what you need to do and when you need to do it. The culmination and accomplishments your daily successes becomes the process. That’s what I’m teaching her.

Luis but in your other thread you said your daughter already had a soccer career but now her journey starts at 13?
 
Her journey? She is getting ready to play her second season of club soccer u10. Her journey will begin when she turns 13 and decides on her own if she’s willing to do all the little extra things that it takes to get to the next level. Right now what I’m doing is being a Dad, that’s setting up his child to win later. By instilling the proper values and beliefs within her that will help her persevere when she is on her own making her own decisions for her future. There is nothing wrong in me setting her up to win later as long as she enjoys the process. I’m just conditioning her for success in the future. Wether she decides to continue or quit, it’s on her. The secrete to being successful in anything you want to accomplish in life lies in the act of falling in love with the process of getting there. If you can do that, you’re way ahead of the pack. Because the minute the process becomes just work without love, you will probably not get there. Success = Your ability to recognize what you need to do and when you need to do it. The culmination and accomplishments your daily successes becomes the process. That’s what I’m teaching her.
I just hope you truly believe that and express it in your interactions with her. Because your words and what you have said on this forum do NOT support what you’ve said above.

I wish you and her the best.
 
Unbelievable...and some of you thought he actually learned something and was willing to change. Lol

Luis but in your other thread you said your daughter already had a soccer career but now her journey starts at 13?

lol. Soccer career, All I said was that she had a goal. And that can change in a few years. But if she has the right values and beliefs and if she is able to find her why by that time, she’ll be on her way to accomplish anything she wants to do in life. I’m not here telling you guys how to raise your kids and what values and beliefs they should have.
 
I just hope you truly believe that and express it in your interactions with her. Because your words and what you have said on this forum do NOT support what you’ve said above.

I wish you and her the best.

I’ll never force her to do anything she does not want. What I do is encourage her and explain to her why it’s important for her to do what she needs to do and when she needs to do it to get ahead in life.
 
lol. Soccer career, All I said was that she had a goal. And that can change in a few years. But if she has the right values and beliefs and if she is able to find her why by that time, she’ll be on her way to accomplish anything she wants to do in life. I’m not here telling you guys how to raise your kids and what values and beliefs they should have.
Nope. You said "short career". Then went platinum and deleted the thread. We all remember.
 
lol. Soccer career, All I said was that she had a goal. And that can change in a few years. But if she has the right values and beliefs and if she is able to find her why by that time, she’ll be on her way to accomplish anything she wants to do in life. I’m not here telling you guys how to raise your kids and what values and beliefs they should have.
Like I said I don’t give a f@& what u do to your kid. But when you get on a public forum and talk shit about an 8 year old girl because you don’t feel that she is good enough to play with your dd, that is where I draw the line you pathetic scumbag. Other posters are saying to give u a break and that u r learning. But based on your last couple of posts you don’t give a shit about learning to do what is best for the kids.

You should be banned from this forum for talking shit about little girls that everyone know is on your OLe team and you should be banned from all soccer fields entirely FOREVER. The welfare of children should be considered, who knows what you are liable to do next.
 
Like I said I don’t give a f@& what u do to your kid. But when you get on a public forum and talk shit about an 8 year old girl because you don’t feel that she is good enough to play with your dd, that is where I draw the line you pathetic scumbag. Other posters are saying to give u a break and that u r learning. But based on your last couple of posts you don’t give a shit about learning to do what is best for the kids.

You should be banned from this forum for talking shit about little girls that everyone know is on your OLe team and you should be banned from all soccer fields entirely FOREVER. The welfare of children should be considered, who knows what you are liable to do next.

Dude get over it. You keep going back to the same thing. We are talking about my DD right now. Last person I would listen to is you or the other idiot when it comes to my daughter and her soccer. I have a different view about winning and tournaments at a young age and that’s it. The way I raise my child is on me. Everyone else has the right to do the same with theirs. So keep your comments to yourself. Don’t worry about my DD. So far so good. She’s learning fast and enjoying the process.
 
Loser, does the director of Ole know that you were bashing an 8 year old little girl on the forum?

Does your dd’s Coach know that you blamed him for intentionally losing the game?

Screen shots are great to hold people accountable.
 
Dude get over it. You keep going back to the same thing. We are talking about my DD right now. Last person I would listen to is you or the other idiot when it comes to my daughter and her soccer. I have a different view about winning and tournaments at a young age and that’s it. The way I raise my child is on me. Everyone else has the right to do the same with theirs. So keep your comments to yourself. Don’t worry about my DD. So far so good. She’s learning fast and enjoying the process.
You are a f$&@ing Moron. I said that I don’t care what you do with your dd. But you have no right to rip children that are not yours. Are you too stupid to understand that? Because I can help you out by reporting you?
 
Loser, does the director of Ole know that you were bashing an 8 year old little girl on the forum?

Does your dd’s Coach know that you blamed him for intentionally losing the game?

Screen shots are great to hold people accountable.

@Fact hey get your facts straight. We didn’t lose the game, we tied. and did not make it to the finals. Wether he was playing the game for development or to prove a point, it’s a matter of Interpretation. I was never bashing on the little girl, I was just trying to get opinions on how someone else may have handled the situation. And a possible solution to help her.
 
It is unfortunate, but the reality is, he is projecting his dreams upon his DD. She may survive this with drive and passion if he is able to allow her to play and grow without too much pressure. I do believe his heart is in the right place but the sooner he grasps the concept that this is her journey and not his, the better his relationship with his DD will be as she enters the dreaded puberty years.

Wow, what are you, a shrink?!
 
@Fact hey get your facts straight. We didn’t lose the game, we tied. and did not make it to the finals. Wether he was playing the game for development or to prove a point, it’s a matter of Interpretation. I was never bashing on the little girl, I was just trying to get opinions on how someone else may have handled the situation. And a possible solution to help her.
Excuse me, you are correct that u tied and this did not make the finals. But I said behind everything else that I have said. You bashed the girl, period!
 
You are a pathetic loser that is living vicariously thru your kid and no other child is good enough to play with your prince. Obviously you have not accomplished anything in your life to be proud of. I am done with you. Karma is a bitch!

Please leave this thread. You seem to be the cancer of it anyway. Get lost
 
Excuse me, you are correct that u tied and this did not make the finals. But I said behind everything else that I have said. You bashed the girl, period!

No he didn’t, he just said that this girl consistently made mistakes, cost them games, and asked for advice on what he could do to help the situation. I don’t recall him ever bashing the kid. That’s made up by you guys.

Stating that the kid gave up goals and cost them the game is either true or false... it happens. It’s either fact or fiction. He acknowledged his own kid cost them a game just now... also a fact, not a judgement and not knocking his kid.

Reality is, we’ve all had kids like that on our teams... it’s the coaches job to deal with it, not ours. He gets it now - hopefully.
 
You can look at my post #90 for this quote from you “Thanks guys, not sure what happened today but the coach deliberately made some changes in the lineups to not advance to the finals. Done with this team. Done with this thread... @Dominic please delete my account. Thanks”.

And you did bash the girl by saying that she should not play and not be on the team. Only after people started to defend her did you turn and say that you were trying to help her. =Bashing a kid!
 
No he didn’t, he just said that this girl consistently made mistakes, cost them games, and asked for advice on what he could do to help the situation. I don’t recall him ever bashing the kid. That’s made up by you guys.

Stating that the kid gave up goals and cost them the game is either true or false... it happens. It’s either fact or fiction. He acknowledged his own kid cost them a game just now... also a fact, not a judgement and not knocking his kid.

Reality is, we’ve all had kids like that on our teams... it’s the coaches job to deal with it, not ours. He gets it now - hopefully.
Cost them games? Isn’t Soccer a team sport and how is that not bashing a child? Goodnight.
 
You can look at my post #90 for this quote from you “Thanks guys, not sure what happened today but the coach deliberately made some changes in the lineups to not advance to the finals. Done with this team. Done with this thread... @Dominic please delete my account. Thanks”.

And you did bash the girl by saying that she should not play and not be on the team. Only after people started to defend her did you turn and say that you were trying to help her. =Bashing a kid!

That was my opinion and then I left it for interpretation based on the fact that there were line up changes to his usual ways. He didn’t deliberately try to lose the game just played a different game. And it was after that then O l realized that it’s more about development than winning games. And I mentioned I had a change of heart on that subject. That experience and listening to you guys is what made me rethink it again. But who cares. That’s the past we were talking about the development of my DD and the way I’m raising her. Stick to the subject @Fact in fact you said you were done right? Leaving the thread
 
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Cost them games? Isn’t Soccer a team sport and how is that not bashing a child? Goodnight.

Well, it happens. Here’s an example, in U9. when my kid was playing defense, prior to the game, I specifically reminded her to watch the back post because I knew she liked to go help out on defense. What did she do? she went in to help in the middle instead of watching the back post and marking the outside wing, they passed it out wide and the other team scored... She did it twice and cost them the game. Not bashing my kid, just fact.

Yes, soccer is a team sport, but she didn’t do her job in that game.
 
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