You're clueless. No, it is not the end game for most of the girls currently playing. Most are playing for the fun, enjoyment, and competition. For those that are looking further, I have mentioned many times that the ECNL is an acceptable route to the next level. It is however, not the only route. I know many, many families that have been thrilled with their experience at Beach, Galaxy/Carlsbad, Galaxy SB, Albion, and Legends FC.
And if Legends FC had been invited to join the ECNL, we would not have left. Why would I leave a club that works twice as hard, by your own admission, as other clubs? We didn't "take her to join the strikers in the first place". They couldn't develop their own players, so they recruited our entire team to join. Yes, we made the decision to leave Strikers when I was asked by the coach to help recruit outside players to the ECNL team because they didn't know who the impact players were in the age group, but I harbored no ill will. Then I became unhappy when my daughter was denied the opportunity to leave the club when she wanted to leave. That was just wrong, selfish, and short sighted.