sounds like you been there! you hit it about right on the mark. Let's hope , you are probably right on that point too.So you had a bad ref at the game.... I know its frustrating and can ruin the game but it happens.
Just take a step back and look at the whole big picture though.
1) its just one of the league games - kids game, remind you.
2) sounds like your kid's team won inspire of bad ref'ing - silver lining is that its a learning moment of the players to deal with human errors in the game - bad officiating happens in EVEY sports.
3) "the system" will essentially do nothing - this is not the World Cup and refs don't get banned as a result of bad calls.
4) If we got all worked up about every incompetent acts by workers we encounter in everyday life, (yes refs are workers on the field), then our blood pressure would stay over 160/120 constantly.
Hope you feel bit better for venting but lets not lose perspective on the whole thing.
I'm sure your next game will be better.....
Happy Monday,
Cheers!
thank you . that is a great post . If I thought I could do better I would put myself out there. I know that I can not. For the most part I feel the refs do a good job. It seems unfortunate that the pool seems to be judged/ assessed / labeled by the lowest common denominator. If you have been around a while , are there more games now than say 5 years ago? thus , stretching the resources of the ref pool.
I also appreciate the mention of Fatigue someone has posted after multiple games physical and mental fatigue have to set in especially in SB / Norco.
- Watched refs call offside while player on his defense side of field.
Yes, Referees should know the rules (like the back of their hand).
Unfortunately, you absolutely and unequivocally wrong when you state "Parents aren't required to know the rules" (assuming you are a Cal South / USYS parent). Cal South makes this a point in the Codes of Conduct that all parents are required to abide by as being a member (i.e. signing up your ward for soccer). In particular, the Codes of Conduct for Parents, which you agreed to abide by each year you sign up your little one are:
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Lot of elbowing in the game...sometimes to the chest, sometimes to the face. If the ref had made a few elbow calls early on, maybe the players get it and say o.k. better not do it. But the call did come (very rarely) and no one (not even me) was sure why the ref called it sometimes, and why not other times, other than maybe he saw it or didn't.
The keeper charge...we all saw it on the video a few months back...same thing happened in our game. Our striker literally went spinning over and our side was screaming for a pk (didn't help the game was tied at the time). I explained to my side it was an entirely fair charge...keeper is generally given preference in the box and he had contact with the ball...no foul. There's no where parents could really look for this, even if they were inclined to (which in our team there might be quite a few takers).
Love these two. Elbows are dangerous to the face. I feel that this should be called every time a face is involved.
I believe the rules state:
There are six offences in which contact is made with an opponent that cause a direct free kick to be awarded:
kicks an opponent carelessly, recklessly or with excessive force
trips an opponent carelessly, recklessly or with excessive force
charges an opponent carelessly, recklessly or with excessive force
strikes an opponent carelessly, recklessly or with excessive force
pushes an opponent carelessly, recklessly or with excessive force
holds an opponent
But what is carelessly, recklessly, or excessive. I know when my kid attacks the ball as keeper, she doesn't feel like she is being careless, reckless, or excessive, she believes she can get the ball. But elbows and pushing from behind always seem reckless or careless.
I also understand that keeping the game in motion is just as important and a push or elbow that doesn't really change the game might not get called.
We had an AR that wasn't keeping pace with the last defender and pretty much stayed near the 18. One or our parents was yelling at him a bit. After reading much of what is said I have more sympathy for him. At least we had 3 referees. Even at the 18 he could see offside pretty accurately, and I do believe it was his 3rd game of the day and heat and exhaustion would be playing a big part in his energy.
Keep my mouth shut is what my wife constantly reminds me, and I must adhere to this.![]()
Having worn the 4 hats (coach/parent/ref/player), I think part of the problem with soccer is that the rules aren't very accessible. The Laws give you the broad brush strokes but 1) there are a lot of things that are left to the refs discretion (which means different refs will call things differently), and 2) there are quite a few gaps in the Laws which can only be really understood through practical experience or by researching the supplemental materials. Reading the Laws themselves won't do most inexperienced people much good (and the structure leaving the important rules to the end isn't particularly helpful). Football and baseball have a complicated rules scheme (in some ways more so than soccer)....but the rules are pretty cut and dry (for the most part, not always)....the soccer Laws have some ambiguity built into them.
4 examples from the weekend: a ref that insisted that goalkeepers could not kick their gks (only roll) with the new buildup line rule...I'm pretty sure from what I've read that's not right, but maybe there's a document floating out there I haven't seen...in any case, CalSouth didn't give the parents any input on what to expect and I found myself having to lawyer the rule (since as a sometime ref/and licensed but not practicing coach) with the ref since I had the doc too. I know the refs/coaches had meetings on these changes, but I got my document only the weeks before the season. And I only ref youngers...I can't imagine the pros that have a ton of other concerns sitting down to focus on the obscure rules for 2008/2009....there's also an ambiguity in those rules over whether the ref must stop the game and set the line or whether the keeper can waive the stop.
Lot of elbowing in the game...sometimes to the chest, sometimes to the face. If the ref had made a few elbow calls early on, maybe the players get it and say o.k. better not do it. But the call did come (very rarely) and no one (not even me) was sure why the ref called it sometimes, and why not other times, other than maybe he saw it or didn't.
The keeper charge...we all saw it on the video a few months back...same thing happened in our game. Our striker literally went spinning over and our side was screaming for a pk (didn't help the game was tied at the time). I explained to my side it was an entirely fair charge...keeper is generally given preference in the box and he had contact with the ball...no foul. There's no where parents could really look for this, even if they were inclined to (which in our team there might be quite a few takers).
Hands. We've also seen it, we all know it. The rules leave it entirely to the ref to determine whether the ball is played, and different refs call it differently. When it happens I know I'm going to get yelled at, particularly since I generally take a beat to see if the player has played the ball or the ball played the player.
This is the most accurate statement I've heard in a long time. My teenagers aged 13 and 17 are refs. There is such a shortage they can ref every weekend if they wanted to. Guess what? It's great money for a teenager but they hate it. They don't like getting yelled at. Imagine that? They are out there in the hot sun doing multiple games with little break and they are good kids trying their best. They will only do younger games and now only want to be AR's. They've had obnoxious parents try to show them video of their mistakes during their precious 10 minute break! Just last weekend my son got screamed at by a parent because they only had 2 refs. Yes, it wasn't good. But he's just a kid who showed up to the field he was assigned to. He gave her the phone number of the person who contacted him to ref and sent her to the field marshal. The field marshal was Another teenager who had no idea what to do so the parent went nuts. I'm a soccer parent too so I get it. We pay a lot of money for these tournaments/league games and want a quality product. But If we as parents (consumers of a product) want to grow the ref pool so everyone gets better refs we need to be more considerate of the ones we are training. There is a huge shortage of refs so we shouldn't be scaring off the youth referees. Treat them with a little respect and understanding.@charlie murphy,
The reason our Association don't have enough referees is simple, we lose 1/2 our youth referees after their 1st year because of ASSHOLE (I'm not filtering this word) PARENTS and COACHES. These piece of crap parents and coaches think they have the right to challenge and chastise and otherwise be assholes to our young referees. So, rather than putting up with the abuse they quit or simply refuse to referee certain games and go back to the Rec ranks.
http://www.calsouth.com/en/referees/how-to-be/
Here is a good example of not reading the rules. Your basic question is answered in IFAB Law 12 (http://www.theifab.com/laws/fouls-and-misconduct/chapters/direct-free-kick)
If I could get the parents to do just 1 thing it would be go to the source material. Read the IFAB rule and the notes. 99% of your questions are going to be answered there. Then accept the fact that the Referee has to make a determination of the degree a Law was broken. We ask:
- Careless is when a player shows a lack of attention or consideration when making a challenge or acts without precaution. No disciplinary sanction is needed
- Reckless is when a player acts with disregard to the danger to, or consequences for, an opponent and must be cautioned
- Using excessive force is when a player exceeds the necessary use of force and/or endangers the safety of an opponent and must be sent off.
Its all in the Laws of the Game.
- Was the foul careless? (i.e. lack of attention or consideration)
- If careless, was the foul Trifling? (i.e. not serious and calling it would disrupt the flow of the game, spectator enjoyment, etc.)
- Was the foul reckless? (i.e. disregard to the danger to, or consequences for and opponent)
- Was the foul done with excessive force? (i.e. exceeds the necessary use of force and/or endangers the safety of an opponent)?
@Eagle33,
The way this typically works during league play is as follows:
Clubs are assigned home games by League. The League typically contracts with the Referee Associations covering the geographic areas to assign games. I'm sure exceptions exist, but Presidio/SDDA, CSL, SCDSL, DA, ECNL, and even Rec all work this way. Clubs are usually taken out of the mix, because it would be a nightmare dealing with 29 clubs versus 1 league schedule. The 7v7's are generally 1 man, but could be 3 man. The 9v9's should be 3 man crews, but if there are not enough referees then they are the 1st to get a 1 man crew. Cal South doesn't allow a 2 man crew (which I believe is a mistake given the shortage of referees and that a 2 man crew could effectively do a 9v9).
When it comes to the youngers, the Assigning Association will be faced with two problems. Availability of referee crews and distance. Referees are independent contractors, so the Referee Association will generally send out an availability request and assign games to the referees who responded. There are often single games in out of way places that are very hard to fill because nobody want to drive 45 minutes to referee 1 or 2 game small-sided games. Finding 3 people willing to do so is next to impossible. The younger kids (more stamina) want 3-4 games ($$$) and the older guys want just a few higher level games (easier to referee two skilled teams playing possession soccer than two teams playing kick ball).
Great post. I never thought about the fatigue factor of reffing 3 games with no breaks. 12 miles a game for FIFA refs? Impressive.
Yes, Referees should know the rules (like the back of their hand).
Unfortunately, you absolutely and unequivocally wrong when you state "Parents aren't required to know the rules" (assuming you are a Cal South / USYS parent). Cal South makes this a point in the Codes of Conduct that all parents are required to abide by as being a member (i.e. signing up your ward for soccer). In particular, the Codes of Conduct for Parents, which you agreed to abide by each year you sign up your little one are:
Parents and Spectators
The parents' role is one of support to the players and coaches. Parents should not engage in "coaching" from the sidelines, criticizing players, coaches or game officials or trying to influence the makeup of the team at any time. Every parent and spectator is expected to:
http://www.calsouth.com/downloads/Codes Of Conduct.pdf
- Learn and respect the rules of soccer and the rules of the CYSA-South.
- Show respect and courtesy to game officials, coaches, and players at all times.
- Respect the game officials and refrain from questioning their decisions or from addressing them in a loud, disrespectful, or abusive manner.
- Cheer for your child's team in a positive manner, refraining at all times from making negative or abusive remarks about the opposing team. Maintain control of your emotions and avoid actions, language, and/or gestures that may be interpreted as hostile and humiliating.
- Ensure that your child is at all games and practices at the required time or provide the coach with an appropriate excuse beforehand.
- Demonstrate appropriate gestures of sportsmanship at the conclusion of a game, win or lose.
- Teach and practice good sportsmanship and fair play by personally demonstrating commitment to these virtues.
- Promote the concept that soccer is merely a game, and that players and coaches on other teams are opponents, not enemies.
Why would Cal South state that every Parent is expected to "Learn and respect the rules of soccer?" Why would Cal South make this singular point the very first point of their code? Why not bury it somewhere down the list? Hmmmmm, curious?
Here is why. Cal South in their infinite wisdom knows that the parents are ultimately their customers. The parents are the ones with the pocketbook. The parents dictate to junior what sport junior is going to play. Having educated parents that understand the rules of soccer is fundamental to Cal South's mission of growing soccer. Cal South realizes that it can't have a bunch of parents sitting on the sideline frustrated because they don't understand the game because they don't know the rules. Cal South's customer's enjoyment of a game is dependent upon learning and understanding the rules.
Cal South also knows that when it has an educated customer base it will have far fewer problems. The parents will be able to answer little Johnny or Jenny's question on offside, why something was or wasn't a foul, why Bobby got a yellow card, the difference between shielding and impeding, etc., etc. Cal South needs you parents to understand the rules because to grow soccer as a game requires an educated population on the rules.
As a newly educated parent on your duty, I hope you will never utter this vile phrase again "Parents aren't required to know the rules." Rather, I encourage you to join the ranks of the parent's that fulfill their contractual obligation to Cal South and learn the rules of soccer.
The Official Laws of the Game can be found here: http://www.theifab.com/laws
You can download the PDF here: http://static-3eb8.kxcdn.com/documents/278/082040_220517_LotG_17_18_FINAL_EN_150dpi.pdf
If you are not going to read every Law, then please study the most important ones for parents to know:
- Law 5 - Referees
- Law 6 - The Other Match Officials
- Law 8 - The Start and Restart of Play
- Law 9 - The Ball In and Out of Play
- Law 11 - Offside
- Law 12 - Fouls and Misconduct
- Law 13 - Free Kicks
- Law 17 - The Corner Kick
I made two of those calls this weekend and they were correct calls, but I got yelled at by the coach and spectators. I explained the change to the 2016-2017 LOTG to the coach and he thanked me. The players started in an offside position and came onto their own half to receive the ball. The restart is where the played the ball in their own half. The coach and spectators assumed the referee crew got the call wrong because the restart was in the players own half.