So then, what’s YOUR definition of racist? Not the textbook, but your definition? What’s your definition of discrimination? Prejudice? A discussion can’t be had until everyone knows everyone’s definition. What you may think is racist may not be what others think is racist? There in lies the problem with trying to have conversations. Many times, you’re arguing things but not using common, agrees upon language.
I think you truly don’t see yourself as racist, discriminating or prejudice because your definition is different than mine... or many others. So we can’t have a conversation because I don’t subscribe to the idea of you calling certain people “dykes”, for instance, as not discriminatory.