Sane65
BRONZE
I am putting this thread together for some sincere thoughts on how to handle a difficult situation. Please set aside the trolling for another thread.
Here's the situation:
My kid has been experiencing consistent, systematic bullying on his new very competitive club soccer team.
(It is a young age group, but these kids are old enough to know what they are doing is simply wrong.)
Approximately 3 kids on the team have been "taking turns" with name calling, teasing and blaming. BTW.... the ring leader is the team manager's kid and happens to be a very skilled good player. I have witnessed the name calling and teasing recently. The targeting happens when the coach is not around. I have to say I have multiple kids that play organized sports and I have never witnessed this kind of consistent bullying. My kid, who loves the game, loves to play, has now said he doesn't want to go to practice and doesn't care to be on the team anymore. Of course it is to the point that we are now forced and willing to address it with the coach, if necessary, leave the club, talk directly to the DOC etc. I am looking for similar experiences and how you have handled it? What actions did you take?
Were there positive results or did it just make things worse to have it addressed? Honest feedback please.
Here's the situation:
My kid has been experiencing consistent, systematic bullying on his new very competitive club soccer team.
(It is a young age group, but these kids are old enough to know what they are doing is simply wrong.)
Approximately 3 kids on the team have been "taking turns" with name calling, teasing and blaming. BTW.... the ring leader is the team manager's kid and happens to be a very skilled good player. I have witnessed the name calling and teasing recently. The targeting happens when the coach is not around. I have to say I have multiple kids that play organized sports and I have never witnessed this kind of consistent bullying. My kid, who loves the game, loves to play, has now said he doesn't want to go to practice and doesn't care to be on the team anymore. Of course it is to the point that we are now forced and willing to address it with the coach, if necessary, leave the club, talk directly to the DOC etc. I am looking for similar experiences and how you have handled it? What actions did you take?
Were there positive results or did it just make things worse to have it addressed? Honest feedback please.