Are these fundraisers included in the initial contract you signed with the club? If it is not in the contract, than don't pay it. I have a friend who is an attorney and refused to sell raffle tickets for his DD club fundraiser. The club said his DD playing time would be reduced if she did not sell the $200 in raffle tickets. The attorney pointed out to them that their contract specified reasons why playing time could be decreased and that failing to sell raffle tickets was not one of those reasons. The club caved in to the attorney. When the other player's parents found out, they refused to sell the tickets. This trickled down to other teams on the club. The next year the fundraiser was included in the contract with a buyout option.
On this note, I know of a club that requires raffle ticket sales and will apply whatever tickets are sold to next years dues. Purchasing raffle tickets is a tax deduction, whereas paying Club dues for your child is not. A few parents have been known to purchase the equivalent of next year's dues in raffle tickets, which represents the equivalent of a 20 - 30% discount when they apply their tax deduction.