TheMountie
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We’re thinking of putting him in MLS Next as a bio band player for next season, and I’ve already spoken to a few coaches about this. Alternatively, we might spend a season in F1 Socal while playing on a second team in the CSL until ECNL makes the grade-year changes for 2026.The bad news is because of the academies mls next and the now expanded mls 2 are unlikely to go grade year. So this might benefit the girls where ecnl dominates but not the boys (at least in SoCal where mls dominates)
My son was in the same boat. More good news bad news. Size and age is pretty much everything in the earlier ages and for boys it last until about 16 when it finally levels out (give or take a year). The problem is by then your kid will probably be ground down with frustration if they want to play at the highest level and will have to nose to grindstone it to stay competitive. It’s why so many kids who aren’t close to the birth line or early bloomers drop out by high school: the effort to get there isn’t worth it to them and there’s not a whole lot they can do to rebalance things in the early years.
He’s turning 13 in September, and his appetite has increased significantly over the last 6 months, so we’re hoping for a growth spurt this year. If that doesn’t happen, we’re perfectly fine playing down until he physically develops more. He’s still putting in work with a personal trainer, and some backyard training. He understands now that coaches tend to value taller, faster, and stronger players early on, so he’s fully aware that this is a marathon, not a sprint.