The WHOLE story is that Coach Ayala said "good job, so-and-so says hi" to a Legends player. This, apparently, was very upsetting to Legends player. Perhaps Coach Ayala shouldn't have engaged with the player, but there was absolutely no negative intent. Anyone who knows Coach Ayala will understand that. Coach Ayala apologized to the player and her parent because Coach Ayala felt bad. However, does that justify someone putting their hands on you and threatening you? And what about the other girls who were watching and listening to this parent screaming expletives in a very threatening way? Is that okay? Like I said, everyone there saw the parent and they know exactly what he did and said.