I tried to speak up but I got squashed like a little bug.This is probably the best description. Parents - do not tolerate it. It's a drug. It's a temporary high that causes permanent damage to your child's brain.
I tried to speak up but I got squashed like a little bug.This is probably the best description. Parents - do not tolerate it. It's a drug. It's a temporary high that causes permanent damage to your child's brain.
nah, this club was maybe South Bay or on the peninsula.Dayak? I've never seen that from him so maybe you're talking about someone else. There is something of a weird dynamic there, though, and I can't quite put my finger on it.
If you spoke to the coaches or DOCs like the way you conduct yourself here, I can totally understand that.I tried to speak up but I got squashed like a little bug.
Thanks, Fudd. Attack the victims like you always do. I am a little emotional and wear my emotions on my sleeve asshole!!!If you spoke to the coaches or DOCs like the way you conduct yourself here, I can totally understand that.
q.e.d.Thanks, Fudd. Attack the victims like you always do. I am a little emotional and wear my emotions on my sleeve asshole!!!
Ok Docq.e.d.
There are multiple false or misleading statements in this post.Wake up folks. espola the Doc is now in sessions. I spoke up when others would not. I was so nice to the Doc and coaches. It's when they started lying, yelling at the girls and not taking responsibility for harming young girls mentally that I started going off. I and my dd were never interested in college soccer. She just loved to play. At U14, assholes like espola are in charge.
Who is it? Don't you have a duty to parents to warn them whom to stay away from?Well, I just got word of a very sad and sick coach who has no business making $175K a year abusing young adult women. It's about to hit the news wire. Wake up parents, people like this espola avatar want your kids to suffer, be abused mentally, sexually targeted, forced to kneel, forced to take all the jabs so they can be abused and threaten with scholarship being taken away. My God parents, wake up.
I have done my duty on here asshole. To all parents. This espola fella is why college soccer sucks. This man has no respect for women.There are multiple false or misleading statements in this post.
Who is it? Don't you have a duty to parents to warn them whom to stay away from?
Liar, again.I have done my duty on here asshole. To all parents. This espola fella is why college soccer sucks. This man has no respect for women.
Ok Mr. Projector. Protect the coaches that yell, scream and abuse our daughters.Liar, again.
Aren't you protecting the coach whose name you refuse to state here?Ok Mr. Projector. Protect the coaches that yell, scream and abuse our daughters.
Let me ask you a question espola. Do you have a dd looking to ball in college? I don't refuse to state the name. Why do you even fucking care loser? The parent will post when he/she/they/them are ready to post what their daughter experienced with an asshole coach. I shared my personal experience back in 2018 when the former UCLA head Coach came to the Polo Fields to run practice and to get a good look at the little 6th, 7th and 8th graders. That lady was mean and last I heard got suspended from soccer.Aren't you protecting the coach whose name you refuse to state here?
Absolutely!! The worst part is the parents who are willing to sacrifice the well being of their own child. The abuse is allowed so the “child” may one day have an opportunity to play on the top team. While the child is being conditioned to accept abuse. The club will use scare tactics of being black balled & labeled to keep everyone in line.I have been reading this thread with great interest to see if anyone would bring up behavior at the club level. There is absolutely a difference in demanding and demeaning and they 100% exist in club as well. You want to play ECNL in a competitive marketplace? You can bet your a$$ these clubs tolerate bad behavior if they believe there is an ROI to be had. The really unfortunate issue at the club level is two fold - the power dynamic between a coach and a minor athlete is one, with the expectation that a minor will voice their concern over the treatment they are receiving from a person of authority. The second is the lack of clarity around reporting misconduct (outside of felony material) to the appropriate entities. Safesport, while nice in concept, is not as useful as they make themselves seem. Yates' report made mention several times that emotional and psychological misconduct is embedded in the youth elite levels as well. That's where it becomes normalized and why players, as they get older, don't speak up.
I’m sorry to hear that you & your child went through that. Props to you for speaking up, more parents need to do the same.The abuse to the women is systematic and it all starts at the youth level (Yates Report). I tried to speak up but got squashed like a little bug. Parents know if you speak up or if the player does, nothing happens to coach and the player is labelled. Dad is labelled as hawk dad. It's sad but true. I lived it
I still don't see a coach's name in there. Don't you want to scoop what is about to come out on the news wire?Let me ask you a question espola. Do you have a dd looking to ball in college? I don't refuse to state the name. Why do you even fucking care loser? The parent will post when he/she/they/them are ready to post what their daughter experienced with an asshole coach. I shared my personal experience back in 2018 when the former UCLA head Coach came to the Polo Fields to run practice and to get a good look at the little 6th, 7th and 8th graders. That lady was mean and last I heard got suspended from soccer.
I’m sorry to hear that you & your child went through that. Props to you for speaking up, more parents need to do the same.
I bet you would like a scoop of the next coach to be an asshole to one of our daughters. I will let the parent do it. Stay tune espola. It's great to see how much you care about the girls and the parents.I still don't see a coach's name in there. Don't you want to scoop what is about to come out on the news wire?