You sound like Crush.
Who promised you the first thing, and why did you believe them? Regarding the second, getting a negative answer is almost certainly because she isn't as good at either soccer or as an "influencer" as OM. No shame in that. I'm unaware of anyone else who has both, which is what is required.
If Nike or Adidas thought they could make money on your daughter, they would be positively responding to your overtures. They apparently don't at this time. I don't see where or how anybody really owes you anything. You seem to mistakenly think the OM story is all about soccer.