I'm fixated on how closed all the leagues are, nothing to do with trust or allegiance. In the earlier days of ecnl, the teams still also played in the 'open' state and national cups until they hit critical mass. That doesn't happen anymore. Obviously I make more comments about ECNL because it is the best in terms of competition.
I question the value of 2 hour round trip commutes during the week that a lot of kids and parents have to choose if the kid is good enough to play on an ECNL or MLS Next team, that's why I want more opportunities for local, more independent clubs. Most of the girls are good at both academics and athletics. What's best for her at 14, an extra 8 hours in the car per week to do only soccer or sticking with a really good local team and using that 8 hours for a robotics club? Won't go pro, but good enough to play at a good college, but would have to choose the extra commute over other interests (or even just hanging out with non-soccer friends). While I think that describes the majority of ECNL players, in the current landscape, that means NPL is the best option unless you happen to live close enough to one of the ECNL teams. NPL just got further diluted in favor of another closed league.
(IMO, traveling on weekends for games is less of an issue. Spending a weekend in Vegas once a year can be fun, but most people aren't at private helicopter tier to get to those trainings. I don't think going outside a 30 minute radius for weekly training is worth it.)
I don't think the national leagues are worth it at any youth level. Playoffs/Finals for 16 top teams across the country, sure.
I'd probably let it go if it was just one closed league and everything else was open, but everything is turning into a closed league and the actual true regional leagues are getting destroyed.