Yeah sorry - this wasn't meant to be a declaration of fact. I know this age group pretty well and this is just my anecdotal feel for one particular sex, year and season.
Point was more about the leagues blending into each other - the top teams from mid leagues can easily compete in a league (or two) above.
And that there is massive disparity within the leagues leading to uneven play. Who wants to to drive two hours for a 10-0 (or 0-10) game?
The disparity is pretty bad, Just looking at the ECNL silo:
The top 2013 Girls ECNL-RL team is around +50 GD vs worst at -90(!) (16 games)
NPL has teams ranging from +70 to -50 in GD across 18 games.
ECNL RL Socal from +70 to -80 (18 games).
Yes, this is the best and worst team in each league. But there are clearly many teams in each league playing in the wrong level of competition and they really should have some form of relegation/promotion.