Seems as good a time as any to tell my Freddy Adu story. I was at the MetroStars game where he scored his first professional goal. There was so much hype about him that a buzz went through the stadium when he started warming up to come on as a sub. He had an incredible charisma. You couldn't take your eyes off of him and when he came on, it felt like one of those highlight cams that focus on one player the entire match. He scored and everyone cheered even though we were at the Meadowlands.
In retrospect, it's clear that all that buzz and charisma was from the hype. Would anyone have even noticed him if he weren't the vaunted Freddy Adu? Probably not. He did have a lot of energy, but so do a lot of players and often those with an overabundance of energy are making up for technical deficiencies.
Over the years as a soccer dad, I've thought about that game a lot. If you asked anyone in the crowd they would have said Adu was the best player they'd ever seen. But, of course, he wasn't. It's just that people wanted him to be that good. And I see the same thing at the youth level. A kid comes into a team with some buzz ("he played for LAFC...!" "He plays for the Someplace youth national team...!") and everyone sees him as better. He "catches the eye" and you notice the good things and dismiss the mistakes as needing time to get used to the team. They get the benefit of the doubt. But a kid can come in from a lower team with no hype and be just as good or better, and not get that benefit. People only see their mistakes and discount the good stuff as luck.
And to bring this back to the current thread. That's what I see happening with a lot of the parents who get their kids early pro contracts. They're creating the buzz that makes people think their kids are better than they really are. And, honestly, good for them. There are so many good, but not great soccer players in the world that you need a way to stand out.