All of you should be happy that your daughter didn't choose dance. My older one went that route, has been dancing since age 7, and it costs at least twice as much as an expensive club soccer team. She is now in High School, probably the best dancer on the High School Dance team, still dances at a competition studio, but has almost zero chance of getting even a partial scholarship to any college. The silver lining in this is she is creative and loves what she does, stays busy and away from boys

, and stays focused on school, and always has a smile on her face.