Comp soccer is a great example of real life. Hard work pays off. It may not get you exactly what you want, but in the day and age of cell phones and social media, mine... as well as yours... has learned life lessons about teamwork, nutrition, exercise, preparation, sacrifice, disappointment, power, some-people-are-just-assholes, opportunity, failure, victory, luck, commitment, politics, euphoria, etc.
Most of all, that life isn’t fair but shooting for a goal has value and merit, even if you don’t quite get there. I’m proud of our kids. They made a choice that many of us probably wouldn’t have when we were kids.
(Unless you’re EOTL. Then you’re just a sad sack douche.)