Lets face there are a lot less opportunists for families in certain socio-economic standings. Not necessarily a rich vs poorer deal but its about the culture and work ethics.
Like the 3four3.com article mentioned the establishments in the US is a big part of the problem:
"1)
Incumbent American soccer media has been practically curated by the establishment. An establishment that naturally doesn’t want to be critically examined, particularly not at the foundational level. Hence, it neuters its media. How does it accomplish this? Well, it
holds a monopoly over the ecosystem. Anyone who doesn’t align with its foundational narrative, its founding culture, is
in danger of losing access.
2) Incumbent culture has a
recreational mentality – a property that is the antithesis of the hardcore culture the rest of the world has. The soccer structure we live in has been built of, by, and for a casual soccer demographic. It extends from youth all the way to the pro level being addressed here.
When something is casual, there are no stakes. When there are no stakes, nobody gets too heated over things.
After all, “
it’s just a game“. That phrase, right there, is the [convenient] foundation upon which American soccer has been built. It’s no wonder we’re mediocre, anybody with that kind of mentality will not achieve excellence.
Contrast that with the rest of the world, where a portion of people’s very identity and self esteem is hinged on their clubs and national teams.
Now, before you robotically react and think that’s sad, reserve judgement until you understand that clubs and national teams across the world represent people at a social, political, economic, and cultural level. It is their flag"
When your hungry(to succeed not to eat) and motivated to play and train hard all the time you have a different mindset vs the casual its just another game we will get them next time deal.
What kids are hungrier or work harder? the suburban well to do kids that have everything laid out for them or the urban kids who have to fight for everything and are given no quarter. I'm sure some players fall in between these two but like some poster mentioned us youth soccer is still considered "soft" and we don't even have min fitness or skill standards and not that many players can be tough and play smart at the same time. Competition is so watered down we have a alphabetic soup of leagues, 4+ different divisions for regional comps like st/nt cups and 3 flights in surf cup, everybody gets medals and the parents are happy but these are really just "soft" landings that most waste weekends and bunch of money on for what?