That's what happen to my baby girl. The coach said, "I will have 18 only, I swear." I actually got him to verbally say to both me and my dd, twice
Also, I see you as a starter too or I wouldn;t be bringing her up to my 03 squad. Then one club did the DPL switch on parents who thought they were in ECNL. Anyway, this coach saw more customer$ and added a few more parents to the team to go over 20 ((super cool parents btw and I love those parents)). Then later, after dd killed it at Surf Cup, he wanted to know about her dream college before entering 9th grade. Rules were going to change he said. He also said, "please don't say UCLA. You do want to play right away, right? You don;t seem like one who can sit still and watch from the bench as other girls play." Again, my kid was honest and said she wasn;t sure about college in her future but is open to it. So guess what happen at the showcase dad of 4? He pulled her aside right before Saturday's big game and told her she will watch the whole game from the bench. I'm not making this up. Home boy told me and her to our face he would carry only 18 but now has 20+ in AZ. I called HQs on this one and I was asked if I signed a contract about only 18. I lost my sh*t and said, "We quit." I had to pull my dd out of that circus. I tried but she cried. GDA coach called and said rules are changing and the girls will be able play GDA & HS Soccer for 2019-2020 season. I went against my gut and we only went to the games for the rest of the GDA season, ok Kicker. There, i told you why!!! I told the coach we won;t play playoffs either if no hs soccer the next season. My dd didnt want to step on other players toes. Guess what, we were told no hs soccer and I told everyone to F off and no playoffs either. We went to the beach Kicker!!! No more club I told her!!! She was so sad and so was I. So I came on this forum for answers to my questions. I got hammered like I am today. Same dudes!!! Now, the good news is at the very last minute, a friend reached out and said their was a spot open and to check out the coach. We happy today