I agree with what you are saying, and so I will reiterate that I'm just saying it's happening...not that it is a good thing overall or for a specific family. But for whatever reason, the "elite" leagues (GA, MLS, ECNL) are gobbling up teams and the pace seems to be quickening. I would love for someone to convince me it's not happening, but it seems like it is. If your kid is a starter in a small club with no MLS, no ECNL, no GA (or their sub-leagues) and your kid is over 11, the chances are good that you are looking to jump ship. So the small clubs see that and try to adapt by getting big enough to apply to an elite league. Barring that, the clubs in the elite leagues will pull whole teams into their club to shore up age groups where their team isn't performing. At the moment, it seems like nothing will stop that.