The split between ECNL and MLS on the boys side is obviously not helpful. I think for some clubs that went to ECNL it was a question of which league would they have more influence and some may have just jumped the gun due to warranted skepticism re: the MLS league. Both leagues have their pluses and minus.I'm good with tournament travel and even league travel within SoCal. Out of state league travel on top of tournament travel is over the top. Our family also likes to travel for non sports reasons and time is a limited resource.
The problem is, there aren't too many options if you have a competitive kid that likes high level training and play. But we may end up opting out anyway.
Best of luck, after 2 years of DA that we're taking things a lot less seriously while still competing at the highest level. Maybe not a good long term strategy, but it is working and my son seems more engaged.