In reading the forum for the last 9+ months it seems that most of us want a possession style of soccer. Not just the biggest, strongest and fastest playing boom ball. But isn't the whole idea of sports to utilize your strengths and minimize your opponents? In an ideal world we would have the biggest, fastest, strongest, most athletic girls that have phenomenal skills that can play the possession game. But like a football team down late in the game who abandons the run, coaches will resort to boom ball if that is the only arrow in their quiver.
Coaches want to win because their jobs depend on it. DOCs want to win because that means more $$$. Parents want to win, primarily for vanity. We talk about the value of possession soccer, but seem to have no patience for actually developing that style of play. We can't move our kids every year based on wins/losses and still claim we care about long term development. Change is a long slow road.