I agree with what you are saying here. Coaching should be much more important than the annual cost of club soccer. Free is always a nice perk, but if it's free and the coaching is poor, what have you gained?
I am curious how many GDA parents are using a potential "free ride" from LAG or Pats to leverage a better deal with another GDA club? I don't expect any parent on this site to share their story (if it is happening), but I have to think there are savvy parents out there saying to Legends, Beach, Slammers, etc.......my dd has a full ride offer from LAG or Pats, so what can you do?