It's certainly buyer beware with Club soccer. My son has played for one of the clubs and currently plays on another club on your list. While the current club is not perfect, it is light years better than the previous club. In one club the DOC verbally assaulted a parent of a tier 1 player because the player wanted to tryout for another club. You would also receive the wrath if your child wanted to guest for another club, despite the fact that the club regularly brought in guest players. In contrast, in my kid's current club the relatively well known DOC has no problem coaching a U8 C team.
It's easy to blame the clubs but parents have to shoulder some of blame. Among other things, the whole scholarship mentality, particularly for kids that aren't even in high school yet, makes parents easy prey for the clubs. These clubs post all their senior college commitments (whether by athletic scholarship or not) on their website and the parents eat it up like educational crack.
Everyone has to make the value decision for themselves as to which club suits them the best. Plenty of organized sports where the cost is substantially more expensive, although on a per hour basis Club soccer maybe the most expensive particularly if you get the old school coach that still believes in laps, lines and lectures.