jrcaesar
SILVER ELITE
What amazes me is that as club parents, we often think how crazy competitive soccer is but if you look at how the rec leagues are - I feel like that's actually where things really tend to get out of hand - parent coaches with ego issues coaching kids to win at all costs, teaching bad habits, no club policies on parents not coaching/yelling from the sidelines, etc... Those parents don't have kids who put in 2-4 days a week of hard work to become better players - it's just weekend entertainment.
This is a good point. But it can be cleaned up if the AYSO Area or Regional leaders want it done. As a referee who works AYSO Tournaments in L.A. and O.C., this issue doesn't actually vary from coach to coach but from Region (and Area) to Region -- some Regions represent the game very well, while other sidelines and parents create chaos. It's the Regional leaders who could clean this up if they committed to do so.