I would be OK with the reversal if FIFA reviewed it on its own initiative and set things straight. But when the review comes at the behest of the President of the home country, well, that decision to overturn is now tainted.
Whether FIFA made the right call or not no longer matters. We look like cheaters. In my opinion, if the USNMT wants to have any world credibility at all, it should sit Balogan for this game.
And if I were Balogan, I would say the same thing. Does he want to grow up like Jose Altuve? Every time he comes to bat for the Astros the stands erupt with chants of "F*** Altuve" and "cheater, cheater." Balogan did not cheat, but if he plays and the U.S. wins, he will perceived as a cheater, and this red-card reversal might be the defining moment of his soccer career. He deserves better.