US Soccer has made it very clear what the preferred path to the YNT is...their house, their rules. This is more about trying to marginalize the ECNL and driving top players from ECNL to DA. We have spoken to a few D1 Coaches about the DA / ECNL debate and they are well aware of what is going on. Based on the feedback they are looking for the best kids that fit their program and university...they don't care if the player comes from DA or ECNL. Today they scout both. I guess it depends what the goal is for your player, and what that journey will look like, and whats important to you, your kid, and family. If you want a shot at the YNT, and FIFA esque rules go DA, if you want High School, more college esque rules go ECNL. If you live in an area where you have one or zero options, that's very unfortunate. The choice is up to you based on what the goal is, stay put, go DA, go ECNL, make a long drive 4+ days a week, or move if it that important. Choice is yours. There is not a one-size fits all platform at this point, both leagues have merit, pros and cons.
Is it fair, no...but life is not fair. They have made the rules pretty clear, and if a chance for a call-up is in the cards for your player, it's pretty clear you better move them to a DA Club. I am 100% sure there are ECNL players capable of playing for this team, I don't think anyone would debate it. At the end of the day it is great honor for these young ladies, and they have worked hard to get where they are and have sacrificed a lot as have their families to support them along the way. They would not be there otherwise. I hope they all represent our country well and make the most of the opportunity.