The only part that sux is the fact that minimum USSF B license coaches are not required until 2021. We need to rid the landscape of the pretenders TODAY. I guess they are giving many of the 'top' club coaches the opportunity to go learn the game and become actual soccer coaches rather than kool-aid distributers.
Developmental saboteurs, especially at the top clubs. Easier to gather advanced players rather than develop them.
The misleading and tragic place to be is your dd being in the middle to lower of the pack with 3-4 ringers on the team.
False sense of development and overconfidence by the parents. 3-4 times a week of warm ups, passing drills, and scrimmages equals
development. Oh, make sure to watch some pro soccer matches to increase your soccer IQ. Until the club brings in studs who happened to
be developed at the lesser\"not as good as our club" homers would say to replace your dd. By then, it is too late and your dd has nowhere to go.
Not saying all clubs or teams are this way, but be aware of what is going on and do your homework.
Don't be a low soccer IQ parent. Some clubs rely on this to keep the engine running and collect big paychecks.
Couple things that worked well for my dd.
Joined training with all boys with rondo, rondo, rondo, and some more rondo. Faster, stronger, and more creative play.
Joined a small group of highly motivated girls from different clubs and highly motivated (non club) coaches who loves soccer and teaching.
No freaking looking at the phone ever during teaching.
Wall work everyday. At school. At home. 10 minutes here. 5 minutes there. Touches add up quickly.
Good luck. Focus on your kid b/c nobody else will.