That's how it always is. Them and their parents, when asked about it, will say, "Oh, it's just a different coaching style", but if they leave, and I've seen it time and time again, from the kids and the parents, it turns into, "oh, he was horrible" "yeah, so and so was a douche bag" "he was an @#$". It's this weird little things, they'll defend the coach out of loyalty, out of fear, out of not knowing better, but then they leave. They get a new coach, they see a good example of a coach. It's like they'll only either see or admit it once their are completely separated from the team/coach. In situations like that, what you're supposed to be looking for is what players and parents say after leaving, not the players and parents there.
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That's how it always is. Them and their parents, when asked about it, will say, "Oh, it's just a different coaching style", but if they leave, and I've seen it time and time again, from the kids and the parents, it turns into, "oh, he was horrible" "yeah, so and so was a douche bag" "he was an @#$". It's this weird little things, they'll defend the coach out of loyalty, out of fear, out of not knowing better, but then they leave. They get a new coach, they see a good example of a coach. It's like they'll only either see or admit it once their are completely separated from the team/coach. In situations like that, what you're supposed to be looking for is what players and parents say after leaving, not the players and parents there.
I have seen the effect last all the way through the child's college career.
MakeAPlay
DA
You are pretty funny @Fact. I'm sorry that your rectum is so sore but that will pass too. Keep on posting you look like an idiot. Why don't you start talking about team rankings and other stupid ULittle stuff. Your day of reckoning will be coming sooner than you think. Throwing stones at me is a big waste of your time because this is entertainment for me. Stirring the pot and watching dumb ULittle parents go ape$hit is pretty funny. I have to laugh about the living vicariously part because you are the one still searching for the right fit. Carry on.
The Driver
PREMIER
how you say it so soccer mom mean.I gather by the negative ratings I got for this statement that other people know better about what I have seen than I do.
Are you admitting that you are not really as big an asshole as you act here - you just do it to "stir the pot"?
glen_dandy
SILVER
Oof. I though you were being sarcastic/joking. As in, folks overuse the RAE excuse so much, some even will say it about the college game.
Perhaps we are on different tracks. I was referring to parents who have unrealistic opinions of their children's abilities, even to the point of harassing college coaches and teammate's parents.
Guilty! In my case I actually believed he was"just an oddball" until my DD made a choice that he disagreed with....then the douchebaggery floodgates opened!
Edited to add that I really believed he was just odd and thought he was a good coach until things went way sideways. I think that might be the case with a lot of parents.
MAP is a mediocre former gymnast who is far from a perfect "10." Thankfully, the apple does occasionally fall far from the tree.
In response to this post, she is going to rip on my player. It is all pretty sick, imo. It is also sick that Dom allows her to insult children for her entertainment.
Thank you Push Up. I have always valued your opinion on this forum. If I remember correctly, her X (aka Size 13 because he was going to ram it up someone) was on a forced timeout from posting and somehow still managed to insult Dom's kid which resulted in Dom banning him.
Do you mean that it is possible for someone to pose as another in order to pursue a personal vendetta?
SoccerLife75
SILVER
Does anyone know, since Academy teams have nothing schedule for the rest of august, are the academy players allowed to guest in any of the August tournaments with other teams?
MakeAPlay
DA
You are so foolish and I haven't quite figured out if you are sweetsplat/push_up talking to himself or some other old idiot poster.
MakeAPlay
DA
And @push_up is a troll from Arizona with a former screen name of sweetsplat among others with a small penis who soccer reality is starting to hit. It is pretty entertaining that all you can do is whine about it and watch my predictions come true. His feelings are hurt and panties are constantly in a bunch. Which I find entertaining for sure.
I am surprised Ms. Mediocre did not directly ripped on my player. I am actually quite happy you fought against your natural instinct to insult her. My player inks with power 5 on Wed, Feb. 6th, 2019. Your predication is fail.
Oh and by the way, the only Christmas tree you are lighting up is the one with a ladder.
MakeAPlay
DA
You are so lame. You couldn't wait to tell me that your little Mia is going to a P5. Let me guess is it Oklahoma, Colorado or is it in state? Quite the academic heft you have there. You are pretty pathetic. You assume other people's identity and then try to take a swipe at me? We are in totally different orbits. I believe that your kid is going P5 when I see it. I honestly can't believe that you brought up your daughter getting committed as a junior.
You are still playing checkers.. I can't stop laughing at you.
MakeAPlay
DA
Yes but who cares. He is weak sauce and is still trying to prove to me that his kid is good enough. Pathetic if you ask me. I personally don't care what anyone other than my player's coach thinks of her. His chains are so easy to rattle...
I think the time is past for you to prove you are "good enough" to be a decent human being.
The Driver
PREMIER
Protip 03s:
Give your coach your dds school schedule and classes freshman year
Look him or her in the eye and say
RUN WITH IT
If they stutter get ghost
Give your coach your dds school schedule and classes freshman year
Look him or her in the eye and say
RUN WITH IT
If they stutter get ghost