The debate is not going to end. As my kid gets ready to age out we have seen ECNL only (leaving out the other leagues) to ECNL and DA to ECNL and GA and now ENCL/GA/ECNLR. Some clubs will get stronger, some will get weaker, some will disappear all together, some will rebrand multiple times (Lighting/Wave - Carlsbad United - LAGSD - City SC, just to name one). Coaches will move, some kids will follow. DOCs will be on a rotating basis (rhymes with Murph). Leagues will come and go. How about another age change back to school year instead of birth year? The only constant has been change.I suppose this will be debated until either the GA doesn't survive or becomes established as good alternative to ECNL that provides opportunity for players that don't have access to ECNL. Seems like a win for DDs everywhere.
Find a coach that believes in your kid. Is supportive. Understands mistakes happen as it is part of the process, commits to playing quality soccer in spite of the results and is a good human being (Alex Walker @ City for example), and enjoy the ride as it ends a lot quicker than you think. IMO.