End of the Line
SILVER ELITE
Between Thanksgiving and Christmas, all of the stores start to ask for donations for various charities - feed the children; feed the animals; sports donations to fund youth fields, etc (actually - I think this is really more year round now. But I notice it more over the holidays). I pick 1 week between Thanksgiving and Christmas and I say "yes" that entire week. If I see a guy on the street with a sign, I hand him a few dollars.
That's about the extent of my giving throughout the year. But if a kid on my kid's team needed money to cover dues, uniforms, travel - I'd help cover it without blinking an eye.
Wow, you sound like a real philanthropist, but that still doesn't explain your animosity toward the club holding a fundraiser to help defray the club dues for the needy. Or why you're so opposed to letting others to sell golf balls instead of having to write a check.
The reality is I called you out for being selfish and thoughtless, and now you're just trying to convince yourself that you're not as big a jerk as you actually are.