This is an interesting magat way to avoid the issue Here,
@happy9 is desperately trying to change the subject of the conversation, which is that making a racist or misognistic point remains inappropriate even if you try to present it as comedy. So our bigoty buddy uses “whataboutism” to deflect away from his misogynistic friend’s indefensible statement. Then, when I don’t let him control his fake narrative - but instead keep bringing it back to the indefensible bigotry of his buddy - he gets all bent out of shape that his desperate attempt to blame minorities for something, anything, didn’t work. These Fox News/Newsmax/OAN Snowflake techniques only work with their weak-minded viewers.