Well, then. A different course. And your probably better off then the rest of us. Good luck, brother.Nah. I am just not in it for the scholarship dreams. I am in it for the games and the friends. Ulittle.
Well, then. A different course. And your probably better off then the rest of us. Good luck, brother.Nah. I am just not in it for the scholarship dreams. I am in it for the games and the friends. Ulittle.
Best thing you can do is understand that “you” aren’t even in the picture. It is your DD’s path, let her pave it.Nah. I am just not in it for the scholarship dreams. I am in it for the games and the friends. Ulittle.
Lol. Fair. I saw the mistake when I wrote it and was too lazy to try to fix it on a phone. My involvement is limited to chauffeur and throwing balls when she asks.Best thing you can do is understand that “you” aren’t even in the picture. It is your DD’s path, let her pave it.
I am familiar with this role.My involvement is limited to chauffeur and throwing balls when she asks.
I am familiar with this role.
Academics doesn't have to be the first thing that gets sacrificed. The idea is after studying and soccer, there won't be any time left for boys.I would rather have regional all star teams than ECNL.
Let the local club do day to day training. 2 hours in the car 4x per week MIGHT get you the scholarship, but it will tank your grades so bad that you wont be able to do much with it.
This is basically what France does...and I agree 100%. Doesn't mean the local club teams are bad at all.I would rather have regional all star teams than ECNL.
Let the local club do day to day training. 2 hours in the car 4x per week MIGHT get you the scholarship, but it will tank your grades so bad that you wont be able to do much with it.
Imagine how much better players would be if they were dedicating that 8 commute hours/week into skills training.I would rather have regional all star teams than ECNL.
Let the local club do day to day training. 2 hours in the car 4x per week MIGHT get you the scholarship, but it will tank your grades so bad that you wont be able to do much with it.
Imagine how fun it will be for the players who have to play games to make it fun or they will play another game instead. My goat wants to play a game. It's been 6 months and she has been doing so many other things and that is a good thing. Now, it's time to drive 8 hours to play a real soccer game.Imagine how much better players would be if they were dedicating that 8 commute hours/week into skills training.
I completely agree with the exception of the top 10% of players. If your kid is in the top 10% of the players in their age group, coaches will find you. If you are a player that is really good but not in that group and could play D1 at a middle of the road program, it is really hard to get noticed if they don't play ECNL. This is especially true for kids looking to attend college in the midwest or east coast. ECNL showcases bring coaches from around the country to one central location. It's super convenient for them to walk from field to field seeing a lot of talented players in one place. More bang for their recruiting dollar.ECNL was a great experience until the chaos began with changing age groupings, DA, etc. Certain birth years were especially harmed in this process.
it is the best pathway for college exposure. There are other ways to make it to college soccer but they are more difficult and nearly impossible to make it to a top D1 program without being in the ECNL. Please don’t bring up the issue of the 2 years of the DA - those players that were good enough would have been in the ECNL during that time. It is really difficult to get attention from coaches if you are not in the ECNL and you are not in the tournaments where the college coaches are. Yes, you can play in the Vegas Cup but if you aren’t an ECNL team you are playing on some field far away from the main field with no coaches watching.
The down side is the cost. People have argued on this forum that it doesn’t cost $10,000 to play in the ECNL. It definitely does when you are honest and include travel costs, uniforms, gas to practices. $3000 for club fees, min 4 trips to Phoenix $1600 (average $400 per trip), PDA $1500, Vegas Cup $800, ECNL playoffs (San Diego $ 1000 / Chicago $1500) ECNL finals ($1500), Uniforms $300, Gas $1200 (easily with an hour commute to practices and games) etc. these are just estimates because I don’t feel like spending the time to dig through bank statements but the actual are probably more than this - this is also only for player costs, not family travel
The end does not always provide a scholarship but at the very least can help you with admission to a top preferred school and a roster spot. With the increase in recruiting international players the roster
spots are even fewer and more competitive. 3% make it to college soccer, 1% to top D1 program
I completely agree with the exception of the top 10% of players. If your kid is in the top 10% of the players in their age group, coaches will find you. If you are a player that is really good but not in that group and could play D1 at a middle of the road program, it is really hard to get noticed if they don't play ECNL. This is especially true for kids looking to attend college in the midwest or east coast. ECNL showcases bring coaches from around the country to one central location. It's super convenient for them to walk from field to field seeing a lot of talented players in one place. More bang for their recruiting dollar.
I completely agree with the exception of the top 10% of players. If your kid is in the top 10% of the players in their age group, coaches will find you. If you are a player that is really good but not in that group and could play D1 at a middle of the road program, it is really hard to get noticed if they don't play ECNL. This is especially true for kids looking to attend college in the midwest or east coast. ECNL showcases bring coaches from around the country to one central location. It's super convenient for them to walk from field to field seeing a lot of talented players in one place. More bang for their recruiting dollar.
i got a warning for something way less than what this is on that post. I guess life isn't black and white its red and blue.No, you drink too early dude..... You owned it and I'm sure Dom will just give you a little warning. I will tell you that is stupid thing to post and not good for my brother who fought his ass off for the country and obeyed LBJ. Not cool but whatever. Joke is a joke,
That one broke my heart. My bro went in at 17. His dad died when he was 9 and he wanted to fight. So he got my mom to sign over so he could go and off he went to South East Asia in one gnarly war. He was hand radio operator and left as a helicopter gunner. 50% survival rate. My bro from another family is one of my heroes. The sh*t he went through as a kid and as a teenager over in Nam was horrible. He was stuffer and later got married then divorced and then married again and then lost his DD to lawn darts. Only 7 years old. That set him off and he went on a one man crusade against the Government. Just an ordinary Dave who fought for his country and lived a life of pain on earth. Losing your father at 9, war, work at Hughes Aircraft, divorce, re marry and then lose 7 year old DD to stupid game for kids back then is hard on any man. I will share his story of not pulling the trigger to end it all over at my suicide prevention thread tomorrow. This is him Jose. DC tried to get him to run for office and he told them all to fu*k off!!!i got a warning for something way less than what this is on that post. I guess life isn't black and white its red and blue.
Which one's do you think is a story teller? How about this story. My wife and I just got back from a sad day of helping her dad, who has Alzheimers. Guess what else we found out this week? Grandma has Alzheimer too and it's worse then Gramps. Their plan of retiring in Guatemala is now officially over. Married over 50 years. This is called a double wammie in life and it hurts everyone. You know what 43? Were going to help them through this. I hope you believe me.Soccer helper - you are a good story teller but just can’t believe all your stories are true lol
ECNL was a great experience until the chaos began with changing age groupings, DA, etc. Certain birth years were especially harmed in this process.
it is the best pathway for college exposure. There are other ways to make it to college soccer but they are more difficult and nearly impossible to make it to a top D1 program without being in the ECNL. Please don’t bring up the issue of the 2 years of the DA - those players that were good enough would have been in the ECNL during that time. It is really difficult to get attention from coaches if you are not in the ECNL and you are not in the tournaments where the college coaches are. Yes, you can play in the Vegas Cup but if you aren’t an ECNL team you are playing on some field far away from the main field with no coaches watching.
The down side is the cost. People have argued on this forum that it doesn’t cost $10,000 to play in the ECNL. It definitely does when you are honest and include travel costs, uniforms, gas to practices. $3000 for club fees, min 4 trips to Phoenix $1600 (average $400 per trip), PDA $1500, Vegas Cup $800, ECNL playoffs (San Diego $ 1000 / Chicago $1500) ECNL finals ($1500), Uniforms $300, Gas $1200 (easily with an hour commute to practices and games) etc. these are just estimates because I don’t feel like spending the time to dig through bank statements but the actual are probably more than this - this is also only for player costs, not family travel
The end does not always provide a scholarship but at the very least can help you with admission to a top preferred school and a roster spot. With the increase in recruiting international players the roster
spots are even fewer and more competitive. 3% make it to college soccer, 1% to top D1 program
100% truth here. Regarding the international players, look at the Memphis roster that has a large percentage of Canadian players.
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