These threads always make me chuckle a bit. If your DD wants to play in college…
1.Today, if you are not playing ECNL or GA you are not going to get in front of many coaches. It’s reality. Deal with it. Life is not fair.
2. The days of if you are good enough they will find you are gone. Schools are sending out info to Freshman and Sophomores, marketing themselves to the kids they have identified…waiting until June 15th after Sophomore Year is too late.
3. You (parent) and player need to market themselves on social media…video, etc.
4. You need to start marketing Freshman Year and start going to camps.
5. You don’t need a high paid firm to help, but it takes an investment of time.
6. Unless a YNT Camp Invite, you will need to go to camps, multiple.
7. Research schools…some stack Athletic and Academic creating a great financial offer, some do not. Lots kids we know getting 30-60% Athletic and then stacking 25-40% Academic on top of it.
8. Almost always, schools with football have better facilities and are fully funded - 14 Scholarships.
9. Investing in Club Soccer for a Scholarship is a bad investment, unless your goal is having a great time with you kid and enjoying the journey, then you are doing it wrong.
10. Playing a sport in college is fun, going to a lesser known school is not a limiter, it’s what you get out of it…I worked with quite a few Ivy League Dopes and Panhandle U Studs…don’t let the sweatshirt letters define your kid.
11. Every kids Journey and situation is different…stop comparing…lots of IG Sweatshirt Posts with no money.
12. The market defines the rules, play the game if you want, or don’t, nobody is forcing you.
13. Check in with your kid often and make sure they are doing it for themselves and not for you. Lots of kids suffer in silence to not dissapoint Mom and Dad.
14. Most importantly know your kids punching weight…if they are playing AYSO at U16, chances are they are not going to North Carolina…be realistic about where your kid fits, Division, Level, etc. Be honest with your kid and yourself…”The world needs ditch diggers too”…playing college soccer at any level is something to be proud of.
15. ECNL / GA have member clubs that are non-profits, that does not mean the people running the clubs make paupers wages…its for profit, do not kid yourself, the model is not going anywhere and the clubs have access to a platform that draws the coaches in and if you want your kid to be seen, be ready to pay-up. Youth Sports is big money. Not saying it is the right model, but is the model today. Not going anywhere so I would get over it.
16. There are always exceptions and outliers, not the norm for most.
BTW….what sport in the US is not pay to pay? They all are.