No offense, but that is not bullying. Take it or leave it. They have other players lined up who want that offer. That is extremely generous. If you have not been prepared to make a decision, then that is on you.
They are not going to let their plan b go elsewhere because you need more time.
Agree and we stuck with our plan and were very excited. Extremely generous you're right. Most importantly we prepared and made the right decision. No offense taken. Everyones happy with their plan A or B.
My daughter ended up choosing the school she is at late in the process. Due to Covid constraints around this time last year she ended up committing with the coach only seeing her play on film and meeting her at a campus visit in late spring of 2021. Her coach was recently hired (2nd full year) and everything she said about how she runs her program resonated with my daughter. Her first semester of school and the first year of soccer were both better than we could have expected. Her team finished in the top 10 and made it to the sweet 16 of the NCAA tourney....that being said the best part is the culture of the team and the balance of high level academics and quality soccer. Her team is in the UAA which is highly competitive and allows for travel to some great schools/cities. She was home briefly for the Thanksgiving break and we could see how much she had "grown up" in 3-4 months and how happy she is on the east coast.
