I’m just saying that we are allowing clubs to charge so much because we believe our kids will get better training and can move up to flight 1. This is killing the quality of the sport and the very good players from middle or lower income are getting lost in this money game. Find those clubs that are not charging so much if you have kids at flight 3/2 or even flight 1
The experience of AYSO as it created United to compete in the club environment is instructive here. EXTRAs (the next tier below) is relatively inexpensive (in our area just a few hundred for the entire year) but it relies heavily on parent volunteers. As AYSO began United, it relied on the same model, but it kept the fees low by relying on parent volunteers. Sure, this is the cream of the crop when it comes to AYSO, so the coaches generally knew what they were doing when it came to soccer (YMMV). But there were also some problems that came with it.
In our own local area it led to a lack of accountability in coaches (some bad behavior on the part of some, ranging from not taking preparing a session plan seriously, to not doing the education and meetings, to screaming at the kids and more serious stuff), an attitude obsessed with winning, or coaches just not being on the same page with a training philosophy. AYSO as a result has had to try to reign some of this stuff in and impose uniformity by professionalizing those overseeing the volunteer coaching staff (so the DOCs are no longer volunteers) and some regions going as far as paying coaches to get that accountability. As a result, costs in our local region are rising for United. Not the $4000 for club soccer but also no longer at the EXTRAs level. Costs are also kept low since United has access to the AYSO sweetheart deals for the fields, and only one tournament and State Cup are included in the cost.
So the United experience is a mixed bag: much more affordable than some other clubs, but it also comes with some negatives, and it's also not accessible for the true poor either (though richer regions like ours do provide scholarships which suppose to be need, not performance, based, though YMMV). There's one maxim that's been repeatedly true in my life: you get what you pay for....sure you can find a bargain but it takes some looking, a little luck, and they are few and far between.
As I always say, you can have your soccer accessible, developmental, or competitive (pick 2).