Lots of shell games, limited liability corp, hiding, "sneaky" accounting and financing going on with youth soccer, abuse of non-profit statutes, etc but audits are few and fair between and they get away with stuff that a normal business don't. Don't ask don't tell is normally what you get.
Parents take control, ask for a full accounting of your fees. You can always hire you own coach, rent some fields, pay a small club fee for insurance and you can run the show without the "middle" people or directors if there not adding value but collecting a pay day.
With so much discussion about the pay to play soccer club world, I wonder how many of you take advantage of the fact that if your club was registered as a nonprofit, you could write off your club player fee on your itemized taxes? We found this out after a few years into it. Better late than never. Pretty sure it can still be done. It helps a lot if you have multiple players.