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Because the team has played and bonded together since August tournaments, and suddenly adding non-teammates pushes others aside. The top 7 on the team might be happy about it, but not the other 8. Now ... if there's a tryout session, etc., first, then all bets are off. But it's usually that players drop in at warm-ups known only to the coach ... who has probably been planning for it since November and the players (expecting to play that day) and parent$ are just finding out about it 12 weeks later. Simple answer.
(I'm just answering the question, btw.)
Thanks for the reply. I come from a background of survival of the fittest. If somebody comes along that is better then a particular player they have 2 choices. Either (wo)man up and work harder and take your spot back or quit. Club soccer is so protectionist anyway with pay for play being a significant obstacle for many superior athletes. It just seems like typical first world entitled crying to me. If a player isn't good enough to EARN their minutes by being a better player then let mommy and daddy cry about it. If you ask me more than anything else including incompetent coaching, this is why we are losing ground to the rest of the world in women's soccer. The US has such a me first, entitled attitude instead of a true meritocracy like our other sports.
By the way this wasn't aimed at you it is just a general statement. Thanks again for the reply.