Being born and not aborted is the first victory in life. So, if your alive and well and on this message board, stop complaining. Being born in a stable and loving environment is victory #2. I will say by the way most of us share what we think, we all had some daddy issues. The rest of the victories can vary based on likes and dislikes. Based on my 53 years in socal, if you were blessed with #1 and #2, if dont matter what color skin you have. That's a fact jack. If you had #1, but got dealt a bad hand to start this poker game of life, then you better be careful who influences your decisions. Again, just because you had it rough being born does not give you the right to kick someone's ass for no reason. Now if you have hate and revenge, then you will fight for what you want and right now, some people want all the power.