Zerodenero
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I feel for you, my dd is kind of in this boat, has some money on the table but got hurt needing knee surgery and now is expected to show up this spring to see where she fits. I'd hate to have mine get redshirted but it could happen. In your case having relationships with coaches and getting a spot as a preferred walk on is a great start. I have to wonder either way how the player who did not officially surface on signing day on the schools twitter feed or College Team page will be treated by potential team mates in the fall. Mine is still working through what she wants to do.
I hear ya Win...The struggle is Real, Or is it?... Redshirting may not be so bad in light of your dd's recovery. Moreover, The fact that your dd is 1) on the coaches radar and 2) has $$ on the table is more than many other hopefuls have.
All your girl can do is controll what she can controll, just have her focus on her goal, from a realistic perspective, one practice, one training, one game at a time