You too don't read too good, simply said that a possible game changer, if the penalty in the box had been call. The Eastlake gk, Glo is a very good and there are no guarantees that Steele would have converted, but it is still a missed call, during the golden goal moment in the game during OT.
You brought it up to gripe, not to inform. You don't get to back it down. You made the complaint.
It definitely was not a missed call. Anyone that thinks so is ignorant. A big part of this is the referee's position and when is seen from his location. He almost certainly was in the best position of the 3 to view the play. Whether there was a foul or not is the referee's judgment. Period. If you have a well trained referee, in a good position to view the play and exercise his judgement, you need to just accept it. Throw up a video that shows what my be a trip but we by no means a certain foul (careless or worse trip), and still insist it was a missed call, and that makes you an ignorant parent determined to prove it.
Sounds to me like a self righteous parent (oh and, surprise, a DOC) who is never going to get called into account for a decision like that. It is really easy to sit in the stands and say what you think. It is really hard to do it on the field when every step, almost literally, is being judged. And in this somewhat close situation, where it appears to be purely a judgement call, the untrained, biased person sitting 50+ yards away, who never gets second guessed, always thinks they are right.
From what I can see in your "evidence", the referee made the right call. If he isn't sure a foul occurred, then he shouldn't blow the whistle. I guarantee that had the jerseys been reversed and he blown the whistle, your sideline would have erupted just the same. I sit on the sidelines, I hear it all the time. It is SHAMELESS AND EMBARRASSING. How can it be that the further people are from the action, the worse the referees are.
At the end of the season party, you guys can all say how you got jobbed and the referee's suck. You can help your daughters feel better about the loss. Maybe there is a missed opportunity in there, but I wonder if you care.